Jeremy Jernigan Posts

The Cause or the Man?

I’m approaching 200 pages of my first Lincoln book of two this winter, and I came across an incredible story. On February 8, 1855, Lincoln was running to be a senator of Illinios. He needed 51 votes to win. This was when senators were chosen by the politicians themselves instead of the vote of the people. At one point in the voting, Lincoln had 47 votes acquired, only 4 short of victory. The senators basically boiled down to three groups: the Whigs (which represented the 47 votes for Lincoln), the “Douglas Democrats” (which were against him by cause and by party so were not voting for him at all), and the “anti-Nebraska Democrats” (who sided with Lincoln’s cause but were against him by party status). His fate lay in the hands of 4 senators from this last party who could easily cross party lines for a vote to include him based on their shared stance against slavery. But ultimately, even though it would hurt their cause, they decided that they couldn’t vote for a non-democrat because “having been elected as Democrats…they could not sustain themselves at home.” Basically, it would hurt their career to help their cause. So they did what most of us would do.

This is where the story would normally end. Except, that Lincoln was not a normal leader. “Lincoln concluded that unless his supporters shifted to Trumbull [a senator prospect who was an anti-Nebraska democrat: same cause as Lincoln but different party], the Douglas Democrats…would choose the next senator.” Lincoln told the 47 senators that promised him a vote to switch parties and vote for Trumbull since he shared Lincoln’s view on slavery, even though he was a democrat. This move would guarantee that a senator would be elected who agreed with their cause. If Lincoln didn’t act this way, he told his floor manager that “you will lose both Trumbull and myself and I think the cause in this case is to be preferred to men.”

And so, Lincoln didn’t get elected to the senate. He decided to propel his cause instead of his career. So much so that he “deliberately showed up at Trumbull’s victory party, with a smile on his face and a warm handshake for the victor.” And yet it is moments like these that defined Lincoln and ultimately pushed him toward the presidency of the United States. “While Seward and Chase [Lincoln’s later presidential rivals] would lose friends in victory… Lincoln, in defeat, gained friends.”

A story like this causes you to reflect. What do we choose when we are put into this same situation? Is our career, or ambition in general, more important than our cause? Or, do we believe in our cause so passionately that we will advance it, even if it costs us personally? Whatever your cause may be, I hope that every leader has found something that they can support above themselves and that when the opportunity presents itself, we will choose the cause over the man.

OTR – Dr. Andrew Jackson

I had the opportunity to spend a lunch with Dr. Andrew Jackson for an Off the Record interview. No, I’m not referring to our 7th President. This Andrew Jackson is an author, blogger, networker, and spiritual-activist. He recently released a book called Mormonism Explained: What Latter-Day Saints Teach and Practice. He also runs the website smartchristian.com in addition to a number of other sites. His website is “a blog outlet providing lifestreaming stuff, top-quality information and breaking news on religion, politics, including numerous resources, references, and relational connection.”

In addition, he has started a Christian Bloggers Network with more than 700 bloggers affiliated with it. When it comes to technology, blogging, and having a faith that actually impacts our world, Dr. Jackson is an innovative leader to learn from. I have tried to record his responses to my questions as accurately as I’m able to but some of his answers may not be direct quotes down to every single word. Also, if I wrote down all of the intriguing information that I heard from him at our lunch then this post would be at least 3 times longer than it already is. Let’s just say that he is a pretty intriguing guy.

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Pics of Gavin (12/6/08)

Michelle and I were totally blessed to have a guy from church take pictures of Gavin for us. His company is Robert James Photography and he did a stellar job. You can click here to see all of the pictures we took and even order prints directly off his site. He and his wife have a heart for missions and he sees this as a ministry so if you are needing great quality photos (i.e. wedding, anniversary, Christmas card) and are on a budget then definitely check him out. He will take care of you. Here are a few pics below to give you a taste. Again, there are more on his site here.

TRADY Award РFran̤ois Macr̩

Yes, another deserving over-achiever has arrived to receive the coveted TRADY (Tomorrow’s Reflection Award for Distinguishing Yourself). This one even hops continents and goes to a French guy. Before I go on explaining why he has earned this honor, please take a second and watch the video below.

Wow, all I want to know is how many hours did this take? Beyond the impressive layering of pure skill on each of the tantalizing 64 a capella audio tracks is the beauty of a nice and thick French accent to a classic Michael Jackson jam. Amazing.

As usual, if you know of anyone that deserves a TRADY then please email it to me and maybe you’ll see their name next to their own award sometime soon. Thanks to Mitch for suggesting François.

Here are the requirements to be considered for this award:

  1. The person must have some unique talent or passion (neigh, obsession) that is different from most people
  2. The person must be someone who is not a “celebrity” and that needs the attention and power that comes from receiving a TRADY
  3. The person must do something that someone else could argue was a complete waist of time

A Study Into Abraham Lincoln

This week I began reading one of two books that will make up about 1700 pages of Abraham Lincoln history that I am reading this winter. Along with a handful of other guys, we are tackling the arguably greatest president that our country has ever had. The first book I’m reading is called “Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln” by Doris Kearns Goodwin. The second is called “Lincoln” by David Herbert Donald. Due to the amount of reading and content that I’m sure to get into, I plan on posting numerous responses as I go. I’ll begin by a quote at the start of Goodwin’s book that offers an intriguing perspective into Lincoln’s challenges from the beginning.

“The conduct of the republican party in this nomination is a remarkable indication of small intellect, growing smaller. They pass over…statesmen and able men, and they take up a fourth rate lecturer, who cannot speak good grammar.” – The New York Herald (May 19, 1860), commenting on Abraham Lincoln’s nomination for president at the Republican National Convention

What Do I Do Now?

The last 9 months of my life have been unlike any other. I have received countless advice and preparation as to what to expect once Gavin was born. Much of it was unsolicited and honestly rather frustrating. Some of it was priceless. As we sit at the 2 week mark of Gavin’s life, I’ve had a few weeks to reflect on what was told to me as an expecting father and what I actually experienced. I have come to two conclusions:

  1. Becoming a parent is far more overwhelming than anyone can prepare you for. The most common thing that I heard from people was to “enjoy your sleep while you still can” almost as a curse on my dire future with a baby. This got frustrating to hear after about the 3rd time and was almost unbearable to hear the 75th time. It isn’t the amount of sleep that leads you to feel overwhelmed. It is your realized ignorance and inadequacy in a major new area of life compiled with a new responsibility unparalleled to any other.
  2. Becoming a parent is far more amazing than anyone can prepare you for. The first time I heard him cry. When they told me how much he weighed. The first time I saw him bundled in a blanket. The way his mouth curves when he is hungry and frustrated. Every time he gets hiccups after he eats. The way his eyes look when he is happy and content and stares back at you. Just thinking of any of these things could bring me to tears with pride and joy.

One of the absolute greatest sources of help for Michelle and I has been a book called “On Becoming Babywise” by Gary Ezzo and Robert Bucknam. In my opinion, this book is worth its weight in gold. I absolutely recommend this book to any parent with a baby…especially first time parents. It has been a rare source of confidence in a very unknown aspect of my life thus far.

So…my two week conclusion about parenting: awesome.